No man ever had all the blow jobs he wanted —
some may have all they can handle, but will never admit it.

Lauren, you sure have the funny! :D

Soooo, are you enjoying it or not?

Yes I am. But the thing is you cannot conflate the two things. The bad effect of living a life ripped off any possibility to make a dent in the great scheme of things has little to do with feeling good about being pampered and automatically assigned a mate.

Think of the ol’ Al Bundy in Love and Marriage. He was sank in a situation he heavily disliked but did enjoy the status quo. Sure, now I’ve taken the argument a bit too close to the edge of insult :) few people like being compared to the guy. But he was a victim of the system who liked his side of the bargain just enough.

In more general terms, if the victim likes it, the victim is still the victim.

I write so you feel like you’ve just had an idea. It’s a nice feeling.

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